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Is good sex apart of true love

KammyBear wrote:

Is good sex apart of true love

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well dont we feel random tonight.

No sex has nothing to do with love on a whole. Do people have to have sex when in love? I think withstanding no sex is a sign and part of true love.

hmmmm i never said it was dont need to be testy now caz that sound like you anit getting any to me. so if you having sex that mean you dont have true love hmmm sounds good to me but what happens to the man that is use his sex every week and now get non cause of true love

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KammyBear wrote:

hmmmm i never said it was dont need to be testy now caz that sound like you anit getting any to me. so if you having sex that mean you dont have true love hmmm sounds good to me but what happens to the man that is use his sex every week and now get non cause of true love

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If he cheats i guess that isnt true (titanic jack and rose) love. Once in love one is willing to give up and sacrafice everything and anything including sex.

and i never said people can not have sex and experience true love. But my point is, sex has nothing to do with true love

It sure helps!
Sex is bringing together of two people to make one!
And if you love the person, really love the person it'll be the best sex you ever had.
Love is a emotion that is powerful.

kandi wrote:

It sure helps!
Sex is bringing together of two people to make one!
And if you love the person, really love the person it'll be the best sex you ever had.
Love is a emotion that is powerful.

so true....
the point is link....like it or not, without sex, a relationship is incomplete, not whole, lacking..... if u can with stand a relationship without sex, well good for u, but remember that not everyone is the same.....i love showing my affection more than talking about it..... and thats why without sex a relationship CANNOT go forward, its just stuck in one place.......

Link wrote:

KammyBear wrote:

hmmmm i never said it was dont need to be testy now caz that sound like you anit getting any to me. so if you having sex that mean you dont have true love hmmm sounds good to me but what happens to the man that is use his sex every week and now get non cause of true love

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If he cheats i guess that isnt true (titanic jack and rose) love. Once in love one is willing to give up and sacrafice everything and anything including sex.

and i never said people can not have sex and experience true love. But my point is, sex has nothing to do with true love

first i agree with Kandi &Demetri on this, not to knock you link but i think thats bs! if you anit ready to have sex with the one you claim to love dont enter into a relationship. cause sex is not just jump on and jump off, is when a man and woman connects emotionally 2 souls becames one why do you think they call us love child cause we were conceived in love

What are guys speaking of? True love or a good relationship? I think sex happens because of true love. And if true love is the reason for sex then sex is not requirement of true love. Thats just my opinion.

ok
that works too

I agree with Link, you guys are confusing relationship with love. I know, if there is love, a relationship is obviously going to be in mind, but at the moment we are not talking about relationships, we are talking about love. In conclusion, true love exist without good sex, therefore good sex isn't apart of true love.

Papouch wrote:

I agree with Link, you guys are confusing relationship with love. I know, if there is love, a relationship is obviously going to be in mind, but at the moment we are not talking about relationships, we are talking about love. In conclusion, true love exist without good sex, therefore good sex isn't apart of true love.

What are you speaking of love or relatioship?
If there is love in a relationship then GOOD sex will be what is being shared.
1). if a partner doesn't know how to make his partner satisfied then teach the other to satisfy.
Love open the window to communication and once there is communication and trust everything should fall in place. Sex is what sometimes cements a relationship...

kandi wrote:

Papouch wrote:

I agree with Link, you guys are confusing relationship with love. I know, if there is love, a relationship is obviously going to be in mind, but at the moment we are not talking about relationships, we are talking about love. In conclusion, true love exist without good sex, therefore good sex isn't apart of true love.

What are you speaking of love or relatioship?
If there is love in a relationship then GOOD sex will be what is being shared.
1). if a partner doesn't know how to make his partner satisfied then teach the other to satisfy.
Love open the window to communication and once there is communication and trust everything should fall in place. Sex is what sometimes cements a relationship...

i agree....and back to what i said before..... love is a form of affection.....when u love someone u are compelled to show ur affection..... hence sex and many other things come into play..... sex being the most exciting of them all....the point is as i said before....love without sex makes an incomplete union of a man and a woman.....thats just how god and i see it......

when a man loves a woman and a woman loves a man they get married (most of the times, unless something interupts the natural flow)

they are expected to have sex, make children and populate the earth.....
plain and simple without sex..... life stops ( i mean the original way to get pregnant, not a sperm doner..etc...)

Hmmm.... listen to yourselves.

You are saying if two people arent having good sex they cannot be in true love

...Sound like malarkey to you? Sure does to me...

Having sex is not a part of love. I can love a person and not have sex with her. Se is just sex.

Link and swiss, I guess we are the only set of people who have or are experiencing true love.

Link wrote:

Hmmm.... listen to yourselves.

You are saying if two people arent having good sex they cannot be in true love

...Sound like malarkey to you? Sure does to me...

dude ur mis interpretting what i'm saying..... and ur not looking on the situation on the flip side....so lets just leave it that that.
whatever excuses ya'll may come up with to try to avoid the obvious truth doesnt change the fact that...sex is a natural urge and i dont see why should i cast aside my natural urges..... sorry just how i see it..... if your a guy and u dont want sex its none of my business, but you must know what makes u sleep at nights.....
resisting the urge and telling urselves that ur in love so sex doesnt matter, now thats obserd......lol

ya'll slowly killing yourselves and u dont seem to even know it.....
as for me....i'll continue enjoy loveing and sexing my girlfriend.....
i'm sure the none virgin dudes knows how good that feels.....

Papouch wrote:

Link and swiss, I guess we are the only set of people who have or are experiencing true love.

lol ok dude sure.....i can bet my life agianst that

Ok reading through what you all have said and its a lot, i think the guys have agree to disagree. so that leads me to ask a next question and think care full before answering my question cause all you have give is opinions and not fact to back up your claims but if want to go get me some fact please do
moving on
next question
Do you think that having sex with a someone you love can bring you close psychically and emotionally to them this time i want fact not opinions wast happy some of the responses i saw

Archlord Demeitri wrote:

Link wrote:

Hmmm.... listen to yourselves.

You are saying if two people arent having good sex they cannot be in true love

...Sound like malarkey to you? Sure does to me...

dude ur mis interpretting what i'm saying..... and ur not looking on the situation on the flip side....so lets just leave it that that.
whatever excuses ya'll may come up with to try to avoid the obvious truth doesnt change the fact that...sex is a natural urge and i dont see why should i cast aside my natural urges..... sorry just how i see it..... if your a guy and u dont want sex its none of my business, but you must know what makes u sleep at nights.....
resisting the urge and telling urselves that ur in love so sex doesnt matter, now thats obserd......lol

ya'll slowly killing yourselves and u dont seem to even know it.....
as for me....i'll continue enjoy loveing and sexing my girlfriend.....
i'm sure the none virgin dudes knows how good that feels.....

Papouch wrote:

Link and swiss, I guess we are the only set of people who have or are experiencing true love.

lol ok dude sure.....i can bet my life agianst that

dude read the initial question...it reads Do you have to have good sex to be in true love?

I am in true love. I am not having sex. hence by induction, I do not need to have good sex to be in true love. Simple reasoning.

If sex is the only way you see true love can be expressed, fine. But I enjoy every moment being truly in love with my girl while practicing abstinance, but i guess these are just the musings of a post teen male who believes human life is more then passing on a genetic code.

BTW no one is saying people in true love dont have sex. I;m just answering the question, sex is not needed to be in true love.

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Do think that having sex with a someone you love can bring you close psychically and emotionally to them Question this time i want fact not opinions wast happy some of the responses i saw_________

thats not much of a question. Reading a book can bring you closer to a person physically and emotionally. Almost anything can.

Link wrote:

Archlord Demeitri wrote:

Link wrote:

Hmmm.... listen to yourselves.

You are saying if two people arent having good sex they cannot be in true love

...Sound like malarkey to you? Sure does to me...

dude ur mis interpretting what i'm saying..... and ur not looking on the situation on the flip side....so lets just leave it that that.
whatever excuses ya'll may come up with to try to avoid the obvious truth doesnt change the fact that...sex is a natural urge and i dont see why should i cast aside my natural urges..... sorry just how i see it..... if your a guy and u dont want sex its none of my business, but you must know what makes u sleep at nights.....
resisting the urge and telling urselves that ur in love so sex doesnt matter, now thats obserd......lol

ya'll slowly killing yourselves and u dont seem to even know it.....
as for me....i'll continue enjoy loveing and sexing my girlfriend.....
i'm sure the none virgin dudes knows how good that feels.....

Papouch wrote:

Link and swiss, I guess we are the only set of people who have or are experiencing true love.

lol ok dude sure.....i can bet my life agianst that

dude read the initial question...it reads Do you have to have good sex to be in true love?

I am in true love. I am not having sex. hence by induction, I do not need to have good sex to be in true love. Simple reasoning.

If sex is the only way you see true love can be expressed, fine. But I enjoy every moment being truly in love with my girl while practicing abstinance, but i guess these are just the musings of a post teen male who believes human life is more then passing on a genetic code.

BTW no one is saying people in true love dont have sex. I;m just answering the question, sex is not needed to be in true love.

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Do think that having sex with a someone you love can bring you close psychically and emotionally to them Question this time i want fact not opinions wast happy some of the responses i saw_________

thats not much of a question. Reading a book can bring you closer to a person physically and emotionally. Almost anything can.

ok dude your right and i'm wrong

Don't worry Demeitri, you'll become an adult soon, by that time you'll understand the logics of life

i HAVE NO COMMENTS FOR THIS THREAD, SO I JUST FEEL LIKE POSTING THAT I HAVE NO COMMENTS FOR THIS THREAD....... ^_^

Papouch wrote:

Don't worry Demeitri, you'll become an adult soon, by that time you'll understand the logics of life

LOL!!!!!
being an adult means understanding that not everyone is not the same and everyone has different perspectives on things..... you dont seem to know that so it seems that u still have a long way to go.....all i was saying is that, i am different from ya'll.....i need to show my love...or i wont be comfortable......so papouch check urself and come back and try to insult me differently, but not with growing up or age, caz i might be young but i experienced alot of adult shit in my life.....

nice reasoning with u dude ^,..,^

Damn, can't you people make your posts any shorter, mi a half Jamaican half Scottish, mi no like read. But anyway I read a little bit, and I see experience being compared with age and all that, now I've lived long enough to see 16 year olds have more experience than any adult, it's frightening, whether it be love or sex.

I take it you still don't understand what Link was saying, therefore I don't expect you to understand what I meant by my statement either

Who me? Cause I didn't read any of those posts, so I wouldn't have a clue what ur talking about.