Broke heart: why do we love ,Love? when love seem to hate us

What do you do when the one you love lies to you over & over again?
Do you try to work it out
let them go
SOS!!!!

If you tired of being lie to , just leave the person and move on with your life. Even though you are in love after a while you will get over it.

Thanks

You let them go.

"Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."

Repeat offenders shouldn't be tolerated.

Thanks beezle

If you a sure that the person is lying to you, tell them that you know they are and give them one more chance. If you find out that they are still lying to you then leave.

listen love cannot hate its because of the inability of both male and females to be satisfied why you think love turns against you or in other words your karma has come back to haunt you it because of past actions why believe love hates you because somewhere in the future you will suffer for Wat you did to other WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND WHAT GOES UP MUST COME DOWN

thanks you make me feel better about my dam love life

well Broken, i guess most of the members said it already. If its this much of problem then just leave the liar. The thing is i'm pretty sure you know he's a liar and you just dont want to leave. You just need to weigh these things out.

at this time screw relationship its better to have friends its all over from here on out.
MU thanks much for the advoice is better to single and lonly done in a relationship with out stress and dam drama

"When love beckons to you, follow him,
Though his ways are hard and steep.
And when his wings enfold you yield to him,
Though the sword hidden among his pinions may wound you.
And when he speaks to you believe in him,
Though his voice may shatter your dreams
as the north wind lays waste the garden.

For even as love crowns you so shall he crucify you. Even as he is for your growth so is he for your pruning.
Even as he ascends to your height and caresses your tenderest branches that quiver in the sun,
So shall he descend to your roots and shake them in their clinging to the earth.

But if in your fear you would seek only love's peace and love's pleasure,
Then it is better for you that you cover your nakedness and pass out of love's threshing-floor,
Into the seasonless world where you shall laugh, but not all of your laughter, and weep, but not all of your tears.
Love gives naught but itself and takes naught but from itself.
Love possesses not nor would it be possessed;
For love is sufficient unto love.

When you love you should not say, "God is in my heart," but rather, "I am in the heart of God."
And think not you can direct the course of love, for love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. "

- Kahlil Gibran

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Kammy you're the one who needs to think about life and what you really want to do with what you have or do not have. Try sorting these issues out and if you want you can call me.

Piss Off as hell wrote:

at this time screw relationship its better to have friends its all over from here on out.
MU thanks much for the advoice is better to single and lonly done in a relationship with out stress and dam drama

i thought u wanted to be single and u were goin to church etc...
this is quite surprising to see u having relationship issues once more.

Link next time turn that into five posts. I can't take that much time to read one post

Baby girl, take a breath and analyze the situation. If it can be salvaged do so, talk to the person when you love some-one it's hard to let them go, yet don't stay in a relationship that's constantly hurting you...

All advise is accepted and concerns as will. thank you all

*Angel* wrote:

Baby girl, take a breath and analyze the situation. If it can be salvaged do so, talk to the person when you love some-one it's hard to let them go, yet don't stay in a relationship that's constantly hurting you...

Well, Angel... sometime even though you are getting hurt, it's best for you to continue trying cause maybe the next person you end up with will be worst. Besides giving up on love has to be the hardest decision someone has to make

Agreed. But it's useless to continue getting hurt...

Papouch wrote:

*Angel* wrote:

Baby girl, take a breath and analyze the situation. If it can be salvaged do so, talk to the person when you love some-one it's hard to let them go, yet don't stay in a relationship that's constantly hurting you...

Well, Angel... sometime even though you are getting hurt, it's best for you to continue trying cause maybe the next person you end up with will be worst. Besides giving up on love has to be the hardest decision someone has to make

Papouch i agree with you

It is useless, but: how much hurt are you going through. How long have you been together, how much do you like (love) this person. These among other questions have to be answered when you are deciding if you should end a relationship

this relationship is not something want to end. im just taking this time to sort things out . when it all said and down maybe im the crazy one i need to chill out. i had saw the other side and it anit perty. i reither be lie to then go over the other side at this point been thu a lot and you dont just thow that away like that. i'll get over it. it will get better if i lot it go.

Butterfly wrote:

Uhm....Kammy,cud u plz try to take time and typ,e the things it's kinda hard 2 read.

Anywho:
Papouch,i agree with u 2 some extent but it really and truly makes no sense u keep puttin urself thru something that is bringing u no gud. In Kammy's case,it sounz like she's been goin thru this 4 a really long time now.

Kammy-u shud know wat u want still. If u want this person to continue steppin on ur heart without any regards 4 ur feelins then that's up 2 u!!

R u sure this person hasn't moved on y this is happening??

Yea?
I hope not for your case.
Love is a wonderful thing but it has to be a two way stream, if he doesn't love you, let him go. If he does try to salvage what you can if you can't maybe you should let it go, for your own sake. The healing process is hard but it isn't impossible.

love is the best and worst thing on earth

i see, u stealing jazzy's lyrics. Ur always in relationship problems, maybe its not us, ITS YOU!!!

U probably need to restructure urself and what and who u find attractive........ ya dig