A Plee From A Friend

Men how do approach a good friend thats a girl and ask them for some sex?
remember you and them have been (best/good) friends for a longtime
and you find urself starting to have intimate feelings for that girl.......

ladies share ur views on this topic as well......

Step up to her and say "you eat rice".

ask jokingly for the sex
if she says yes get serious then ask the same question again
then it's yes or no and you either get it or don't

thats a good idea

look deeply in her eyes when u say it, while holding her hands

Papouch wrote:

Step up to her and say "you eat rice".

*shakes head*


The joking is a real good idea. I usually use a bunch of hypothetically oriented questions. In addition, depending on the relationship, I usually know this friend well enough to know exactly how to accomplish my goal.

hey but do u really wanna do this? U might end up losing a friend....... if u really care 4 her..... otherwise do wateva

iBlacknite wrote:

hey but do u really wanna do this? U might end up losing a friend....... if u really care 4 her..... otherwise do wateva

i'm assuming that ur feelings are so strong that you dont care about risking ur friendship......^^

so that wont work

Just be a damn man and step to her and tell her that your feelings have grown and that you would like to take the relationship further, but if she is not interested, in one, you can still be friends

Butterfly wrote:

Nothing tried, nothing done!! U'll have to know the person u wanto approach in order to know how to approach them. Yeah n think,also,if u wud really wanto put ur friendship at risk.

lol so true

Just ask if yes its good for you if its no oh better luck next time

Kammy wrote:

Just ask if yes its good for you if its no oh better luck next time

nah...in a case like that...i dont think there will be a next time

Link wrote:

I usually know this friend well enough to know exactly how to accomplish my goal.

Dude this is manipulation in it's fullest form



I don't think i would want to risk a relationship like that just for some sex that may nt even worth it.

ahmeer wrote:

Link wrote:

I usually know this friend well enough to know exactly how to accomplish my goal.

Dude this is manipulation in it's fullest form



I don't think i would want to risk a relationship like that just for some sex that may nt even worth it.

ssoooo true.....-.- shame on u link

Listen, you guys are getting this thing all wrong!! I said i want to accomplish my goal. You're goal is whatever you want it to be. my GOAL is a long lasting relationship. and it's not manipulation. Its making sure you do what the person likes and wants. Y'all just have your minds in the wrong place.

What's wrong with manipulating someone. If you don't you may never find the one you love

Papouch wrote:

What's wrong with manipulating someone. If you don't you may never find the one you love

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I'm not even gonna bother with this one

Beezle wrote:

Papouch wrote:

What's wrong with manipulating someone. If you don't you may never find the one you love

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I'm not even gonna bother with this one

i'm guessing ur in alot of trouble now dude lol!

Demar...

humans do things because of
emotions.

Emotions are cultivated through attraction.

Attraction isnt a choice

IF it is that that sexual tension never existed between you two before.

Its ludicrasy to just approach her and ask her.

You have to have that... silent communication going on.
Get her blushing....

IF thats not there. Dont even bother to try.
If you dont know how to communicate on that level, you're even worse off.

I dont know how your ego will take this.
Most guys wouldnt take well to the rhetoric, but - watch guys who are good.

IF you DO have that sorta thing going then...

you dont NEED to ask
You drive each other to the point where its in demand...

subtly of course...


Anywho - you never listened to me lol.
N I agree u and I dont really go after the same women. But. What I said applies accross the board here.

And btw - kudos for asking your question out in the open like that.
Seriously.

Link wrote:

In addition, depending on the relationship, I usually know this friend well enough to know exactly how to accomplish my goal.

We all deal with people on the basis of how well we know them.
We all talk/share/relate to people on that basis. ESPECIALLY our friends.

How is this manipulation?

Grim wrote:

Demar...

humans do things because of
emotions.

Emotions are cultivated through attraction.

Attraction isnt a choice

IF it is that that sexual tension never existed between you two before.

Its ludicrasy to just approach her and ask her.

You have to have that... silent communication going on.
Get her blushing....

IF thats not there. Dont even bother to try.
If you dont know how to communicate on that level, you're even worse off.

I dont know how your ego will take this.
Most guys wouldnt take well to the rhetoric, but - watch guys who are good.

IF you DO have that sorta thing going then...

you dont NEED to ask
You drive each other to the point where its in demand...

subtly of course...


Anywho - you never listened to me lol.
N I agree u and I dont really go after the same women. But. What I said applies accross the board here.

And btw - kudos for asking your question out in the open like that.
Seriously.

lol ok grim thnx for the tip.....
i have a girlfriend(intimate) already...but for some reason i find myself atrracted to my best girlfriend(social).....we have dated before, but i broke up with her because she was too immature.....but now she grow up and sexy nuh hell!! and i find that i can really open up with her and we talk about anything. but its been 2 yrs since we dated and we've developed a strong friendship *going to movies, cooking dinner for me and vice versa*
yes theres always been sexual tension, but she has a man and she always talk bout how she is being faithful and a whole heap of crap. so i'm sceptical to bring my feelings into the open. but dont worry i'll figure something out....

u guys can still keep the tips coming.

P.S. mi loss ur number grim...send it on!

Grim you have become a Dr. Phill now

Grim wrote:

Link wrote:

In addition, depending on the relationship, I usually know this friend well enough to know exactly how to accomplish my goal.

We all deal with people on the basis of how well we know them.
We all talk/share/relate to people on that basis. ESPECIALLY our friends.

How is this manipulation?

see at least one person gets what i'm sayin! grim u need to be on more. i cant handle this alone.

Link i understand what your saying. Chemistry in any relationship is really important. But there is a fine line between chemistry and manipulating someone into beleiving you care for them but in true and fact it just for the sex. if you know thats the case and you value your friendship dont. that all im saying on that front