Broke heart: why do we love ,Love? when love seem to hate us

i can never understand one thing bout women and relationships....ok u've had a bad relationship....

what happened to learning from that situation, pick ya self up and move forward with renewed knowledge and understanding.

NOOOOOO!!!!

u ppl fall flat on ya backs....
i'm done with this i'm done with that....
screw this screw that...
wait 6 months
and then make the same stupid mistake again.....

personally i think u get out of a bad relationship...u ought to bounce back while all that took place is fresh on u'r mind...that way u can properly guide yourself into a better situation....

think about it!!!!

Samanuskie wrote:

i can never understand one thing bout women and relationships....ok u've had a bad relationship....

what happened to learning from that situation, pick ya self up and move forward with renewed knowledge and understanding.

NOOOOOO!!!!

u ppl fall flat on ya backs....
i'm done with this i'm done with that....
screw this screw that...
wait 6 months
and then make the same stupid mistake again.....

personally i think u get out of a bad relationship...u ought to bounce back while all that took place is fresh on u'r mind...that way u can properly guide yourself into a better situation....

think about it!!!!

but the thing is, most of these girls carry their baggage from the bad relationship onto the bew one, so whats started out good, then got sour and the chain continues.

thats true...but one would assume that they at least try to be smart and kno that each person is different...and at the same time the baggage dosent disappear over time

all that happens is that they end up being desperate for love and the rush into something (and usually its the first attractive guy) and i dont need to say hoe that can me harmful

Ok I truely believe LOve is always a work in progress .You meet a bunch of wrong people first. To gain experinces and non of us here are any experts. So im listenig to you but im still waiting to hear some true about your experince with it not my misstakes, i know mine so this point of this exercise to share your experince not to sit in judge me of what you all think went wrong. i never know ,im never gonna ask cause im never forget it serve as a reminder to never love someone so much ever again. and Blacknite if you know whats gud you shut you pie hole.

u cant give up on luv, cause believe it are not luv is the closest thing we human being have to magic. without it our life just dont make sense.

love is a battlefield that simple means being in love isnt easy
u sometime have to fight to keep it

I dont think i a have the strenght to fright this time the odd are against me.
I told the if you let it go and truely belong to you it will come back that how im looking at it from now

Thanks B

Why do we love when love seems to hate us?
I guess because we know what love is and we want to share it with people we care about.
For me, I always try to fix things that are broken and somewhere along the line I normally get damaged.
Maybe if we stop trying to fix the broken, stop being broken get up, brush the dirt off our clothes and allow our selves to learn from the experience granted some people learn at a slower rate, and love doesn't hurt infatuation does, there a difference between the two one lasts forever whether or not you're both together (love) the other one 'wears off' after awhile. Love isn't supposed to hurt...

how long does infatution soppose does it get int year are just mouths?

Infatuation is unhealthy and should be squashed the moment it is felt.

True Beezle

I have a question though. How or what do you do to get over a crush?

Beezle wrote:

I have a question though. How or what do you do to get over a crush?

There are no real answers to this question but i can tell you that a crush can go two ways either it goes away on its own are it grows into some more then a crush ,it all depense on the person you have the crush on too.
If is a person you have to deal with on a every day bases will you gone have your work cut of for you . All you really can do either enbrace it are shone it but which every way you chose make sure you dont have a regret when it all said on done. Evaluate the sitution carefully and approach it with 50% logic and 50% heart work all the pros and cans an make an informed decision about what your feeling. Thank you i'll be here all week if you need any more info and how to approach the sitution

I needed that piece of advice there, thanks much.

*Angel* wrote:

Why do we love when love seems to hate us?
I guess because we know what love is and we want to share it with people we care about.
For me, I always try to fix things that are broken and somewhere along the line I normally get damaged.
Maybe if we stop trying to fix the broken, stop being broken get up, brush the dirt off our clothes and allow our selves to learn from the experience granted some people learn at a slower rate, and love doesn't hurt infatuation does, there a difference between the two one lasts forever whether or not you're both together (love) the other one 'wears off' after awhile. Love isn't supposed to hurt...

no it's not love is a word wiyh many meanings each of those meaning signifies a bond that can only be broken by death, but guess what?, you see what i feel for you can only discribed as one million tmes stronger than love and not even death itself will be able to brake it apart.......

I JUST WANT TO KNOW WHHERE DO BROKEN HEART GO? CAN THEY FIND THERE WAY BACK HOME?

Beezle wrote:

I needed that piece of advice there, thanks much.

Your welcome Beezle

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I JUST WANT TO KNOW WHHERE DO BROKEN HEART GO? CAN THEY FIND THERE WAY BACK HOME?

good question im still in the process of finding that out but as far as i see they end up in a shell scare .

Butterfly wrote:

Beezle wrote:

Infatuation is unhealthy and should be squashed the moment it is felt.

I agree with u 100% Beezle,except for the fact that it's hard to "nip it in the bud" if u can't accurately define it as infatuation!! The feelings of infatuation n love r very close inuh n most times very hard to differentiate.

ok Butterfly I'll help you to figure this out im gonna start this thread for you.