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PostSubject: MATIE   Sat Jan 17, 2009 10:40 pm

I honestly think sometime a "matie" makes a guy feel more of a man that the wife does at times. Even though this is so a mate should know there boundaries and I think no mate should ever try to confront a wife about their man.

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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Mon Jan 19, 2009 11:19 pm

If matie confronts the wife then she's being disrespectful and should be dumped for not knowing her place.

I want to say more but I don't know how to word it. I'm losing my touch...
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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Tue Jan 20, 2009 7:15 pm

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If matie confronts the wife then she's being disrespectful and should be dumped for not knowing her place.

I want to say more but I don't know how to word it. I'm losing my touch...

That coming for a woman means alot

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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Tue Jan 20, 2009 7:22 pm

Maties do, do a lot for many guys. Wives know just how to nag a man off to his matie! I dont know how much i agree with the concept but when youre with one person for that period of time they often know how to piss you off and usually do!

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If matie confronts the wife then she's being disrespectful and should be dumped for not knowing her place.

I want to say more but I don't know how to word it. I'm losing my touch...

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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Wed Jan 21, 2009 10:48 am

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Maties do, do a lot for many guys. Wives know just how to nag a man off to his matie! I dont know how much i agree with the concept but when youre with one person for that period of time they often know how to piss you off and usually do!

Beezle wrote:
If matie confronts the wife then she's being disrespectful and should be dumped for not knowing her place.

I want to say more but I don't know how to word it. I'm losing my touch...

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Beezle, your ratings have just gone through the roof!
eeeeeerrrrrrr.......i bet she wouldnt feel that way if she's the matie

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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Wed Jan 21, 2009 2:04 pm

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eeeeeerrrrrrr.......i bet she wouldnt feel that way if she's the matie[/quote]

i guess if i were ever someone's matie and i disrespected that person's wife and got dumped for it i'd be pretty pissed off at the time. it's a natural response. but eventually i'd realize that what i did was stupid and get over it. eventually...

i wouldn't want to be anyone's matie though. being second best or "not good enough to be wifey" isn't something i'd strive for.
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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Wed Jan 21, 2009 5:03 pm

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Archlord Demeitri wrote:
eeeeeerrrrrrr.......i bet she wouldnt feel that way if she's the matie

i guess if i were ever someone's matie and i disrespected that person's wife and got dumped for it i'd be pretty pissed off at the time. it's a natural response. but eventually i'd realize that what i did was stupid and get over it. eventually...

i wouldn't want to be anyone's matie though. being second best or "not good enough to be wifey" isn't something i'd strive for.[/quote]ok Rolling Eyes

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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Wed Jan 21, 2009 7:19 pm

Beezle, what if the guy really likes you and does not refer to you as the matie, but you know that he has another woman?

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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Wed Jan 21, 2009 11:40 pm

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Beezle, what if the guy really likes you and does not refer to you as the matie, but you know that he has another woman?


what would she be referred to as then?

well...*deep breath*

i think it would be unfair to both women if the guy decides to get involved with "the other woman". just because she knows about the relationship you're already in doesn't mean it's ok to get involved in one with her(for lack of better phrasing). uhm...i just don't like these triangular relationships. they never end well.

but if for whatever reason a tri-relationship happens. for it to work the other girl would have to be extremely patient and extremely understanding and extremely comfortable with herself and the guy. and the guy would have to be extremely careful if he wants both relationships to survive.

but i'd advise against it...
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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Fri Jan 23, 2009 3:44 pm

Beezle wrote:
Archlord Demeitri wrote:
eeeeeerrrrrrr.......i bet she wouldnt feel that way if she's the matie

i guess if i were ever someone's matie and i disrespected that person's wife and got dumped for it i'd be pretty pissed off at the time. it's a natural response. but eventually i'd realize that what i did was stupid and get over it. eventually...

i wouldn't want to be anyone's matie though. being second best or "not good enough to be wifey" isn't something i'd strive for.[/quote]

Everyone should know there place . The male population is slit into 3 the gay the straight and the dead, that means one point are another you sharing a man the straight population is every small so the ratio is 1 man : 2 woman.
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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Sun Jan 25, 2009 1:28 pm

On a serious level, I don't feel anyway bad if I have more than one girls, but I find it really difficult to handle, if I know my girl has a next man. Somehow this confuses me all the time

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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Mon Jan 26, 2009 11:26 pm

lol

double standards, what a bitch
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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Tue Jan 27, 2009 12:20 pm

bun is ok as long is buning with respect ::gunfire1:: ::sex::
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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Tue Jan 27, 2009 7:22 pm

How do you bun someone with respect?!

Beezle it is a bitch, but we have to live with it

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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Tue Jan 27, 2009 9:28 pm

Beezle wrote:
Papouch wrote:
Beezle, what if the guy really likes you and does not refer to you as the matie, but you know that he has another woman?


what would she be referred to as then?

well...*deep breath*

i think it would be unfair to both women if the guy decides to get involved with "the other woman". just because she knows about the relationship you're already in doesn't mean it's ok to get involved in one with her(for lack of better phrasing). uhm...i just don't like these triangular relationships. they never end well.

but if for whatever reason a tri-relationship happens. for it to work the other girl would have to be extremely patient and extremely understanding and extremely comfortable with herself and the guy. and the guy would have to be extremely careful if he wants both relationships to survive.

but i'd advise against it...

BAH! Wadda u know! You're still a teen!

I dont agree with tri-lationships but they do happen in life and they often work out.

Look at Cloud Strife from Final Fantasy 7! If he chose only Aeris and she died (as he did) then he'd be screwed!

The only way tri-lationships are bad is when we have 2 men sharing one woman. There are so many things wrong with this and i'lljusr highlight a few...

1) The females image
If you really love a female then one would care about how she is viewed in society. We all know society frowns on such behaviour so we should try to not let the ladies we love pursue it!

2) Territorialnesstivity

Men are territorial by nature unlike most women. With that, there is definately going to be conflict between two guys that "own" one female!

3) Baby Making

If a woman has two men and gets pregnant problems will more than likely arise due to the possibilities of fatherhood. When a man gets both his women pregnant, then he knows he has to support both! No chance of mix up!


See Beezilla, it's not double standards, its just called being real!

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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Tue Jan 27, 2009 9:32 pm

But when you get the bullshit end of the stick you start fighting so that you don't have to live with it.

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In this case it's all well and good for a guy to have multiple partners, and the woman should just be ok with it - hence the matie title. But if anyone ever finds out said woman has another man - whether matie/wifey/gf - another label gets tagged on, whore/slut/etc.

fuck double standards. alright i'm done
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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Tue Jan 27, 2009 11:22 pm

Edit: Sorry about the double post but I couldn't resist.

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BAH! Wadda u know! You're still a teen!

I dont agree with tri-lationships but they do happen in life and they often work out.

Look at Cloud Strife from Final Fantasy 7! If he chose only Aeris and she died (as he did) then he'd be screwed!

The only way tri-lationships are bad is when we have 2 men sharing one woman. There are so many things wrong with this and i'lljusr highlight a few...
See Beezilla, it's not double standards, its just called being real!

now that i'm home i can answer this properly.

First of all, I'm an adult. Your what...3/4 years older than me? Big deal!

Secondly, you can't use fantasy relationships to justify real ones.

I see your points and I agree with them except I'm sure women are just as territorial as men. You're the one listening to all these sketel songs, you should know.

And as much as I hate with a passion tri-lationships in our oh so lovely society [/sarcasm] it's tolerated and for most cannot be avoided. But I know, without any doubt, of successful relationships between just two people (man and woman of course). So I'm holding out until...
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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Wed Jan 28, 2009 7:53 pm

* whistles * whistle

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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Thu Jan 29, 2009 10:08 am

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i wouldn't want to be anyone's matie though. being second best or "not good enough to be wifey" isn't something i'd strive for.

Why not Beezle? It's all how you look at it. There's the inernal view and the external view.

The extrenal view is what people on the outside see. This is usually negative. People see a "dumb whore" who is playing second fiddle to wifey.

Interview is the one from the people inside the relationship. This is where the wife finds out that she herself is not enough for the man and he's only with cause of the kids or someother little reason. The matie is the main source of pleasure, main focus of attention, and the one who holds all the cards. The matie was chosen by the man cause she provides certain keys things the wife cant.

being called a matie is an honor and you women should wear it with pride!

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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Thu Jan 29, 2009 2:59 pm

Link wrote:
Beezle wrote:
Papouch wrote:
Beezle, what if the guy really likes you and does not refer to you as the matie, but you know that he has another woman?


what would she be referred to as then?

well...*deep breath*

i think it would be unfair to both women if the guy decides to get involved with "the other woman". just because she knows about the relationship you're already in doesn't mean it's ok to get involved in one with her(for lack of better phrasing). uhm...i just don't like these triangular relationships. they never end well.

but if for whatever reason a tri-relationship happens. for it to work the other girl would have to be extremely patient and extremely understanding and extremely comfortable with herself and the guy. and the guy would have to be extremely careful if he wants both relationships to survive.

but i'd advise against it...

BAH! Wadda u know! You're still a teen!

I dont agree with tri-lationships but they do happen in life and they often work out.

Look at Cloud Strife from Final Fantasy 7! If he chose only Aeris and she died (as he did) then he'd be screwed!

The only way tri-lationships are bad is when we have 2 men sharing one woman. There are so many things wrong with this and i'lljusr highlight a few...

1) The females image
If you really love a female then one would care about how she is viewed in society. We all know society frowns on such behaviour so we should try to not let the ladies we love pursue it!

2) Territorialnesstivity

Men are territorial by nature unlike most women. With that, there is definately going to be conflict between two guys that "own" one female!

3) Baby Making

If a woman has two men and gets pregnant problems will more than likely arise due to the possibilities of fatherhood. When a man gets both his women pregnant, then he knows he has to support both! No chance of mix up!


See Beezilla, it's not double standards, its just called being real!

ok link...i agree...but u have to realise that this is modern times....."equality" is what women want now lol.....so i guess we have no choice Rolling Eyes

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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Fri Jan 30, 2009 8:15 pm

oh bwoi Maties ( aka live savers)
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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Sat Jan 31, 2009 6:52 pm

How backwards...
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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Sat Jan 31, 2009 9:10 pm

There are not really life savers. I can do without sex

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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Mon Feb 02, 2009 1:49 pm

Papouch wrote:
There are not really life savers. I can do without sex

infinite ratings......u elevate urself pass the stage alot of men can't get pass......i stop pressure sex, nothing good ever comes from being a shark Rolling Eyes Neutral

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PostSubject: Re: MATIE   Tue Feb 03, 2009 10:02 pm

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There are not really life savers. I can do without sex

I guess you never had a matie that was worth spending time with, some maties dont alway do the sex thing. some are there because they see you not just as a sex buddy but because they care for you and maties are human too, so yes they need love too .these people here are living in a candy coated world. Every one has to be a matie or a joe at some point or
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