WHY DO WE LIE TO OURSELF?

THIS IS A TIME LES QUESTION DAY IN DAY OUT WE LIE TO OUR SELF ABOUT OUR EMOTIONAL NEEDS TO HAVE LOVE WARTH TO BE NEEDED BY A LOVER.
HERE ARE SOME CLASSIC EXCUSES ARE LIES WE TELL OUR SELF AT TIME AND PLEASE DONT BE SCARE TO ADMIT AND IDENTIFY ALL YOUR ALL TIME FAVOURITE LIES YOU LIKE TO TELL YOUR SELF , PLEASE YOU WOULD BE AMAZED TO SEE WHAT YOU TELL YOUR SELF WHEN YOU ADMIT TO THE TRUE .

PLEASE ADD YOURS TO THIS
1. I DONT NEED HIM /HER
2. I DONT LOVE HIM/HER AGAIN MORE
3. CAN FIND SOME BETTER THEN HIM/HER
4. IM OVER HIM/HER

Backaz wrote:

THIS IS A TIME LES QUESTION DAY IN DAY OUT WE LIE TO OUR SELF ABOUT OUR EMOTIONAL NEEDS TO HAVE LOVE WARTH TO BE NEEDED BY A LOVER.
HERE ARE SOME CLASSIC EXCUSES ARE LIES WE TELL OUR SELF AT TIME AND PLEASE DONT BE SCARE TO ADMIT AND IDENTIFY ALL YOUR ALL TIME FAVOURITE LIES YOU LIKE TO TELL YOUR SELF , PLEASE YOU WOULD BE AMAZED TO SEE WHAT YOU TELL YOUR SELF WHEN YOU ADMIT TO THE TRUE .

PLEASE ADD YOURS TO THIS
1. I DONT NEED HIM /HER
2. I DONT LOVE HIM/HER AGAIN MORE
3. CAN FIND SOME BETTER THEN HIM/HER
4. IM OVER HIM/HER

the answer is simple....sometimes its better that way.......we need to stop kidding ourselves that the relationship can work.. move on......time is presious and it shouldnt be waisted on someone who doesnt care about you.....

yup, although I'm in love with my girl, we were talking the other day and she got a call and she moved away just to take the call and then stared in space for a while and came back. I was only thinking one thing but I don't know for sure so the relationship continues, but I say this to all girls out there, if you fuck around, you get fuck cause I keep one girl and only one and if she cheat well, I guess I will become one of those guys. So don't cuss when man give hunnu bad treatment.

p.s This has nothing to do with the topic but I just wanted to share it.

Swiss wrote:

yup, although I'm in love with my girl, we were talking the other day and she got a call and she moved away just to take the call and then stared in space for a while and came back. I was only thinking one thing but I don't know for sure so the relationship continues, but I say this to all girls out there, if you fuck around, you get fuck cause I keep one girl and only one and if she cheat well, I guess I will become one of those guys. So don't cuss when man give hunnu bad treatment.

p.s This has nothing to do with the topic but I just wanted to share it.

very interesting swiss...glad to know

UMMM.............. SERIOUSLY I DONT LIE TO MYSELF BCUZ I NEVER GET EMOTIONALLY CLINGY TO A CHICK, I GUESS THATS WHY MY RELATIONSHIPS DONT LAST LONG........ THATS ALL, IM JUST TOO PICKY

Swiss wrote:

yup, although I'm in love with my girl, we were talking the other day and she got a call and she moved away just to take the call and then stared in space for a while and came back. I was only thinking one thing but I don't know for sure so the relationship continues, but I say this to all girls out there, if you fuck around, you get fuck cause I keep one girl and only one and if she cheat well, I guess I will become one of those guys. So don't cuss when man give hunnu bad treatment.

p.s This has nothing to do with the topic but I just wanted to share it.

Dude you said fuck omg you better pray you hear me, any way how is she
hope you two are doing fine but i was talking about me in the post. but i just wanted see how much of you can relate to me

oh well she's doing fine, although I'm starting to dislike her aunt even more. Damn it's hard having a girlfriend that can't even come over your house and she lives like 3 houses away in front of my house.

Anyway back to the topic

I think its a psychological defense mechanism, like repression. I think we lie to ourselves in the hopes that one day we truely believe it so that we can spare ourselves from being hurt.

And swiss dont worry i think we've all been through that but dont worry sometimes girls do some strange shit but arent cheating. gwan hold the faith. And i agree that if a chicks fucks around she should fuck off.

well i ave to agree with blacknite........backaz don't read this part i just tell the girls dem wat them wat 2 hear & i don't lose sleep over & the girl doesn't knw shit.........thats just hw i am i don't lie 2 myself i lie 2 these girls :drunk:

ahmeer wrote:

well i ave to agree with blacknite........backaz don't read this part i just tell the girls dem wat them wat 2 hear & i don't lose sleep over & the girl doesn't knw shit.........thats just hw i am i don't lie 2 myself i lie 2 these girls :drunk:

yow ahmeer it depends pon how much you care for that person.......trust me dude if you really luv a girl...it hard fi tell her some serious lie.......trust mi i talking from experience

lol if u say so

ahmeer wrote:

lol if u say so

lol a real ting my yute....wait til you find a girl you care bout....you'll see

yo nigga plz.........mi care bout all a dem, well as far as they knw

ahmeer wrote:

yo nigga plz.........mi care bout all a dem, well as far as they knw

see what i mean...u just prove me right

yo dat statement mean i was pretending 2 care about dem........but they thought i really did

ahmeer wrote:

yo dat statement mean i was pretending 2 care about dem........but they thought i really did

exactly what i'm saying........when ur with someone you care about...its hard to "pretend" not to like them

yo just mek we end this conversation caz their is no reasoning with u

ahmeer wrote:

yo just mek we end this conversation caz their is no reasoning with u

lol you need to bring ur point across then......caz i'm not getting it

LIAR LIAR PANTS ON FIRE ALL LIARS TALK THE THING MI FRIEND TALK THE TRUE SWISS

Backaz wrote:

LIAR LIAR PANTS ON FIRE ALL LIARS TALK THE THING MI FRIEND TALK THE TRUE SWISS

??? liars oh......

that y i think im stay single now i dont want any more of the shit caz when one decide a sec choice.
and how dear uno come bout woman cheat we should fuck off when you fucks stick your dick in any pussy that willing . you 'll bother to reasure your woman say you want her and make her feel needed and spend time to do the dam work right instead of running down another pussy before you try to please the one you have. you wouldt get bun. so you all a chatting shit and you mr. aheemer bout only tell girls what they want to hear if that work then im guess that you talking to kids and not real woman

Oh I have one
5. Her Lost

exactly........... its not that i don't know girls i care about, its just that the ones i care about i rather just have them close, than to be with them

blacknite21589 wrote:

exactly........... its not that i don't know girls i care about, its just that the ones i care about i rather just have them close, than to be with them

yea man a real ting u chat